Everyone can make a difference and serve

Like many Americans, my family and I observed the Martin Luther King Jr. holiday this year.  I really like that the focus of this holiday includes participating in volunteer events in service to others.  It is a great time to reflect on what we are doing to make a difference and how we can be of service.  For my husband and me, it’s important that we pass the value of service to our three children.

Serving by providing meals to others

For example, my husband Rob and I started a tradition 20 years ago to spend time before the Thanksgiving holiday volunteering.  This is by no means our only day of the year, but it’s one that helps us to keep perspective on how fortunate we are and reminds us that we can all do our part to make a difference.  Over the last few years we have spent time at the Los Angeles Mission, preparing and serving meals.  Our oldest now goes with us and this year asked if he could invite his basketball team.  There are 15 boys on the team and we figured five or six would show up.

Young people want to make a difference too

"For my husband and me, it’s important that we pass the value of service to our three children." - Lisa Stevens

“For my husband and me, it’s important that we pass the value of service to our three children.”

To my surprise, bright and early at 5:00 a.m., almost the entire team showed up.  The sleepy boys were standing out in front of our house ready to go to downtown Los Angeles.  Rob and I both loaded up our cars.  On the ride down to the mission was pretty quiet, and I have to admit, I was a little nervous about having to worry about watching and supervising these teenagers.  Since we have been going to the mission we know that there is always a ton of work that needs to be done in the early morning to prepare 4,000 meals….you take instruction from a lead and dive in!

What happened next was pretty awesome, the boys all made it clear to the head chefs that they were there to work.  A few of them said they were good with knives and started chopping away at melon and garlic.  Some of them had cranberry sauce duty and some went out on the streets to provide water to the people in skid row waiting in line (there is no public running water/drinking fountains).  As I worked beside many of them at different times, I observed these young souls connecting with a different world than what they were typically exposed to on a daily basis and fully embracing it.  I observed them see that their work had purpose and that they were no different than the people that live 13 miles from their homes…..just lucky.   These boys worked hard and I have no doubt the mission will want them back next year.  We had to leave after four hours to get them back since they had their first game that evening. On the car ride home they all asked if we could figure out a way they could stay all day next year.  As Rob and I attempted to thank them for coming as we brought them back to their parents, they all just kept thanking us for the opportunity.

The funny thing about teenagers is often we have no idea what is going on in their heads, but we do get these fantastic moments to connect with them….not always sure when it is going to happen, but when it does, you see the glimpses of what amazing human beings they are and what a bright future we have ahead of us.

Culture of service

At Wells Fargo, we have a culture of giving back and being of service to our communities.  Our company’s Vision & Values asks that all team members be active community leaders.  To further support this culture, the company has volunteer chapters in our local markets that give team members the opportunity to create “volunteer communities” that make a positive impact on their local communities and they align perfectly with our corporate values.

Lisa Stevens

About Lisa Stevens

Mother of three…devoted wife…spiritually centered…community minded…Wells Fargo veteran…passionate about helping moms take care of themselves financially. Raised by a devoted mother who continues to provide unconditional love and support, Lisa has been following in her mother’s path for the last 14 years as she raises a son and two daughters with her husband and best friend, Rob. How she responds to challenges at home and at work is a daily reflection exercise. She strives to use unexpected character-building moments to embrace her shortcomings and commit to learning and growing. As a community banking executive, Lisa likes to think of life’s journey as a series of deposits – freely giving of yourself to others – and withdrawals – opening yourself to receiving gifts from others. She readily admits motherhood gave her an entirely new perspective here. Her personal experiences and 24-year career in financial services led her to write this blog with moms in mind. Money can evoke a range of emotions for moms, and Lisa strives here to help moms take control of their financial future.
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2 Responses to Everyone can make a difference and serve

  1. Lana Bykova -Wells Fargo district manager says:

    Thank you Lisa for sharing great story. Being a great leader for WFB PAC MIDWEST team & role model for your son is so important. I have 3 daughters and every year we volunteer in Jewish home for aging in SFValley; its teaching my kids to respect and help elderly. Teaching kids on Serving others early on in their lifes is best gift mom can give.

  2. Brenda Parson says:

    What an awesome story. I’m a volunteer that loves giving back to my community. I believe we have a Social Responsibility to Make a Difference and it doesn’t cost a thing.

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